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Heard it all before....
There is significant behind-the-scenes discussion about how advice from married Christians could potentially further discourage single Christians. Let's talk about it! Understanding Both Sides First off, I just want to say that I totally get where both sides are coming from. There was a time when I was that well-meaning married woman dishing out advice to single Christians, thinking I was really helping. But looking back, I realize a lot of what I said probably didn’t hit the
Ericalynn Cotton
Feb 113 min read


Lovers and Friends
Friendship is one of the most beautiful and misunderstood aspects of dating. We’re often told, “Be friends first,” and while that advice holds wisdom, it can also become confusing when friendship begins to look, feel, and function like a relationship—but without clarity, commitment, or direction. In healthy dating, friendship is a foundation, not a hiding place. Why Friendship Matters in Dating Friendship allows you to: See someone without the pressure of performance Observe
Ericalynn Cotton
Jan 274 min read


Dating V.S. Courting
Many times in the Christian community, we hear the word courting thrown around. Many times we use this word interchangeably with dating. It was not until recently that I was made aware that the two are completely different. Although there are some similarities to both, the intentionality behind courting is much different than the fluidity and casual nature of dating. Understanding the difference between dating and courting can bring clarity, peace, and alignment to your hear
Ericalynn Cotton
Jan 193 min read
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